Liz Wasson asked:
Where has the love gone? Is it really possible, in this modern age, for couples to stay married throughout their lifetime? In 1400 the average woman died around 27 years of age and oft times during childbirth. The average marriage didn’t come close to lasting 20 years. Today, however, we are living longer and so facing more challenges. One of the challenges we face is staying married for life. If you gaze in the mirror and wonder, “how can I restore my marriage?” you are not alone. Here are some reasons why you should restore your marriage.
Restore My Marriage – Reason #1
Children. According to an article in the Mercury News written in 2004 recent research suggests that children of divorce face many more hurdles. It is now believed that children do better in school, have less depression, less marital struggle and longer marriages when they grow up in a house with both biological parents.
Restore My Marriage – Reason #2
You and your spouse probably do love each other. This is just a test and the truth of the matter is that if you have children those children put stress on your marriage.
Most people believe the myth that children bring couples together but in fact 70% of couples polled said that marital satisfaction dropped and didn’t return until the kids went to college. Having children and raising a family can be very tough. Rather than give up on your marriage realize that it’s just a temporary tough time until you get your kids raised.
Restore My Marriage – Reason #3
Life is better when you’re married and you’ll outlive a lot of those single swingers. Interestingly enough, men have a lower life expectancy than women but married men have a longer life expectancy than single men. If you want to live longer, especially if you’re a man, stay married. Also, when couples enter retirement actuarial studies have found that both spouses live longer than their single counterparts.
Restore My Marriage – Reason #4
Starting over is tough – and expensive!. Throwing the baby out with the bath water is an unnecessary move. The road to an improved marriage is paved with bumps, side roads and occasional unmarked twists and turns. In the long run, having someone who knows you and is used to your idiosyncrasies is of more benefit than hindrance.
Too many people nowadays suffer from the Hollywood version of romance – the fairy tale. Well, that’s the fairy tale!
The road to restoring any marriage is more communication and improved communication skills. Also needed is accepting that no person is perfect and that each brings their own issues to the relationship.
For those couples or spouses who are serious about the question, “How do I restore my marriage?” one of the quickest and surest routes is help. There is nothing like a neutral third party who knows how to make marriages work to turn the tables on unhappiness. There are so many reasons to restore a marriage but the real reason is so you are happy. Take action today so you can begin enjoying your marriage tomorrow.
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